Choosing Your Bridal Shoes

Brides are now more daring and are not afraid to do whatever they like with their bridal wear, looks, decor and shoes are definitely not left out.

It is agreed that when it comes to the overall look, the shoes could make all the difference

 

 Many designs take inspiration from the 1920s. A return to sophisticated elegance. Round toes and T-bars, cut-out and lower heels.

Antique Metallic or muted colours are big as opposed to traditional white and ivory shades. Beautiful soft pinks, antique gold and silver, both in full shoe and detailing is also popular

Platforms are quite popular these days .

The pointed toe has also made a huge come back.

Prints of all kinds are already being used for the wedding decor and are now showing up in bridal shoes

 Wedge heels are not left out

Some brides are opting for studs, and they're the kind of shoes that can be dressed up or down after the wedding

Some brides now choose beautiful laser cut detail on anything from wedding dresses to shoes

 

 Lace is getting more and more popular, lace shoes in both modern and vintage styles  

The Stylish Flats for the brides who do not love heels

 Something Blue in shoes

Some brides choose coloured shoes to match the wedding Color theme

Shoe appliques can make your wedding shoes extra unique

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 Have fun choosing your wedding shoes!

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Choosing a Theme for your Wedding Flowers

A wedding would not just be the same without flowers. every bride wants her wedding to be memorable and most times her choice of flowers reflects her taste and personality. Flowers create a theme to make the wedding day special and provide the finishing touch to this very special day.














Whatever flowers you decide to have is entirely up to you, it is your personal choice,so your own preferences are the most important part as well as having a basic understanding of what works well for the theme you've chosen and your budget and do ask a lot of questions and discuss your ideas with your florist.
Let's have a look at few ways to theme your flowers
BRIGHTS
1) If you're planning a bright summer wedding then flowers are the perfect way to add a pop of color. Some varieties like roses, tulips and gerbera come in a multitude of colours - perfect for creating a bold look. Making a statement with your flowers will also mean that few other decorations will be needed, potentially saving you money in the long run.

2) With bold-coloured blooms, you'll need less of them to make an impact, making them a good choice for brides on a budget. choosing larger flowers like hydrangeas will also mean that less stems will be needed to bulk out arrangements.

3) Consider the time of year when choosing your flowers.
Bright colours look best in sunlight so if you plan to get married in the winter, choose more subtle shades.

CITY CHIC
1) Choosing flowers in one colour is a good option for a glamorous look. We particularly love this - all-white scheme with hints of green. Focus on elegant blooms and a dd a bit of luxe with candles
and mirrors. hydrangea, roses, lilies and orchids are always good choices for an instantly stylish and chic look.

2) For a bit of hollywood bling, use candelabra table centers
with hanging chandelier drops, or strings of pearls for retro glamour. Accessorise the handle of your bouquet with a pearl or or diamante buckle for an added wow factor.





3) If your budget is tight, get down to your local DIY store for purse-friendly inspiration. Don't hedge around the cost with your florist. Be honest if you can't afford much; it'll help your florist look for cheaper but just as lovely alternatives early on.
COUNTRY GARDEN

1) Perfect for summer weddings, the country garden theme is probably one of the most popular looks this year. This
theme is a great choice if you fancy having a go at arranging your own flowers. Simple displays can be easily arranging your own flowers. Simple displays can be easily arranged in miniature milk churns, jam jars, enamel buckets or collections of small vases on tables. Fill with delicate flowers like astrantia, cornflowers, sweet peas, aquilegia, foxgloves, dephinium feverfew and nigella.

2) For more sumptuous look add peonies, roses and dahlias.
herbs and plants are also a great way to dress your tables and bring the garden indoors. small potted herbs or plants would make lovely favours too.
3) Tie your bouquet stems with lace, raffia or twine for a rustic, country - garden finish.

Source:Article by Sabine Darall in Wedding Ideas September 2012(www.weddingideasmag.com )


 Have a fun time planning your big day

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Sarah O

Estilo Moda Bridal

Unit 11 JM Farms

Broughton Grounds Lane

Off Newport Road

Milton Keynes

MK16 0HZ

01908925152  07534041173

Email:  info@estilomoda.co.uk

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How not to be a bridezilla

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The planning of your wedding might have started because you were in love - but sometimes the stress of preparing for your nuptials can have the opposite effect on your relationship. If you've found yourself at loggerheads the past few months, you'll be happy to know it's normal to have some niggles as you plan your big day together. "Organizing a wedding is a very intense experience, with high expectations and a lot of pressure all round," says consultant and psychologist and author Dr Cecilia d'Felice(www.drceciliadfelice.com). "It's well worth putting some time and thought into the way the two of you can come together to plan your wedding, because it will say a lot about how you organize and support each other in daily life." And don't panic if you feel your big

day is doing more to break rather than bond you:"Nothing is insurmountable and now is a good time to discover how you can work harmoniously together because it will give you a great foundation for the years ahead. Remember, there's no set recipe, so enjoy finding the one that works for you," adds Cecilia

I PROMISE TO... HAVE FUN WITH YOU
This might sound like an obvious one, but it's easy to get so caught up with planning that you lose

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your fun factor. Re-visit all the quirks you both took so much joy over discussing when you first became engaged. Create a playlist of songs which are meaningful to you both, plan your menu with fancy practice meals and have a giggle rehearsing your first dance together. "You could even sign up for some dance lessons; they'll be fun and you'll find out what it's like to learn a new experience together," says Cecilia. "It's often good to have differences, but make sure your relationship allows for give and take in your decision-making, so you can both enjoy the process."

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I WILL... COMPROMISE WHEN WE DISAGREE
You never thought you'd find yourselves arguing over place settings but now, what might have been a joke in your carefree past, is more serious in the planning present. "If you're both digging your heels into the ground over something minor, there's no point in getting angry with each other - just take time out." says Cecilia. "If you find you are arguing over trivial things, it could be a sign you are looking for an excuse to release tension so take stock and discuss the pressure you're both under and how you can alleviate it. Are you expecting too much from each other? Understanding things from each other's perspective is one of the key ingredients to a really good marriage."

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I PROMISE...NOT TO LET THE WEDDING
CONSUME ME
If you can't remember the last time you talked about something unrelated to your big day it might be time to step away from your organizer; you're in danger of becoming a bridal bore. "Your wedding is such an important day for everyone, it's not surprising it can get a bit out of balance with the rest of your life." says Cecilia. "But it's important to keep your sense of perspective and you can help each other with that. Whether it's you getting uptight over the details, or him withdrawing from proceedings, be gentle and bring each other back into the light again by keeping a sense of balance." Create wedding-free zones in your house where you can relax together, and organize date nights. "You might find in the build-up to the big day you don't get as much time as a couple and need to re-connect with intimacy again,"says Cecilia.

I WILL...REMEMBER WHY WE ARE GETTING MARRIED
You always said you wouldn't become a bridezilla, but the low-key ceremony you wanted has probably gained a few extra layers since  you started, right? That's OK - it's when the scale of the event overshadows your time for each other that you need to worry. "Be careful you don't work so hard on the wedding of your dreams that you feel an anti-climax on the day and find it hard to enjoy the first few days of married life," says Cecilia." The honeymoon is there for you to relax and unwind, but don't go into holiday in such a high state of tension that you can't enjoy it. "Take some time out to talk about the day your fiance proposed, your dreams of married life and all the things you love about each other.

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I PROMISE TO...REMEMBER THERE'S A FUTURE AFTER THE WEDDING
Your big day's bound to be your focal point right now, but dont lose sight of the fact that when the last glass of champagne has been sipped it'll be the beginning of something wonderful, rather than the end."Plan some activities in your diary for when you come back from honeymoon, either as a couple or together with friends," says
Cecilia. "By getting that sense of balance and continuity
back after the wedding you'll avoid an anti climax."


Source:Article by Victoria Rolison in The Wedding Magazine, February.March     2013(www.weddingmagazine.co.uk)

Additional source:    21 Days to a New You by Cecilia d'Felice
 Have a fun time planning your big day

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Sarah O

Estilo Moda Bridal

Unit 11 JM Farms

Broughton Grounds Lane

Off Newport Road

Milton Keynes

MK16 0HZ

01908925152  07534041173

Email:  info@estilomoda.co.uk

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Traditions, Roles and Etiquette....2

 
Wedding Traditions
 
Ceremonial Positions
During the ceremony, the bride traditionally stands on the left side of the groom - this originates from the groom needing to leave their sword arm free, to fight off any potential suitors who may wish to vie for the affections of the bride. Oh, if only....

 
Confetti
Before the paper confetti we have today, guests used to throw rice over the bride and groom. This was believed to encourage fertility



Flower Bouquets
Dating back to ancient times, the carrying of pungent herbs and spices was believed to ward off bad luck, evil spirits and illness. Later, in Victorian times, flowers were sent to lovers as messages - each type signifying a different message or meaning.These links were eventually adopted and adapted into the tradition of brides carrying bouquets.
Throwing the bouquet originated in America with the bride turning her back to the gathered female guests and throwing her bouquet in the air. Whoever catches the bouquet is said to be the
next to marry. One word of caution, if you have lots of single women at your wedding be prepared for a scramble! 



Present Giving
Before the age of giving toasters, other household goods and wedding lists guests traditionally bought fruit as gifts for the happy couple as this was believed to encourage fertility.

Something Old, Something new...
"Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a silver sixpence in her shoe"

Dating back to Victorian times following this poem is beleived to bring good luck to the bride and groom

Something old...represents the connection to the bride's prior life and her family. Many brides opt to wear something old which has links to her side of the family.

Something new...represents the bride's successful new life ahead with her husband and good fortune. Often the wedding dress is
considered as the 'something new'

Something borrowed...represents the bride's personal support system and is a reminder that her friends and family will be there for her in times of need. This item can be jewellery, a hair accessory
or anything else the bride can wear on her person during the day.

Something blue...represents loyalty and fidelity to her husband dating back to biblical times, blue was the color of purity. Garters are often detailed with blue ribbon - or it can be any other blue item which
the bride can wear.

A silver sixpence in her shoe...represents the wish for happiness and wealth to the bride and her husband.

Threshold Carrying
The tradition of carrying the bride over the threshold was believed to protect the new and innocent bride from evil spirits, which may be creeping around the new home.

Wedding cake
Back in Roman times, the wedding cake was termed as 'the bride's cake' and was ceremonially broken over her head, (charming!). This was to signify the groom's dominance over his new bride.

Obviously, this tradition is a little outdated and today the bride and groom cut the cake together to symbolize their intention to share everything in their future together. Far more acceptable for brides-to-be!

Traditionally the top tier of the cake, (or the fruit cake layer) is kept and saved for the first anniversary.

Wedding Dress
Traditionally, it's believed that the groom should not see the dress before the wedding day otherwise this will bring bad luck. To bring more good luck, he should even refrain from looking at her dress as she walks down the aisle towards him. It is beleived that the bride should discard every pin, when removing her dress and veil, or she will be unlucky.

 
Wedding Favors
The tradition of wedding favors has been around for hundreds of years having now evolved into each
guest receiving a reminder of the day, usually in the form of chocolate or five sugared-almonds representing health, wealth, fertility, happiness and long-life


Wedding Etiquette
Attendants
Don't forget to cost in gifts for your attendants into your budget - it's also important to remember to thank them for their hard work and support during the speeches.

Receiving Line
The receiving line is carried out at the reception venue, and is done either on arrival or before the guests sit down to eat. The traditional order of receiving is as follows
Bride's parents
Groom's parents,Bride and Groom
Chief bridesmaid and Best Man

However , although this is the traditional line-up, some couples opt to receive the guests by themselves

Relatives
The bride's parents

The bride's mother is the last person to be seated before the ceremony begin. The bride's father escorts his daughter down the aisle. Both stand in the receiving line at the reception, with the bride's mother standing first in line.

Old tradition has it that the father of the bride paid for the wedding and reception however now the

cost is usually shared with the groom's parents and bride and groom.

Traditionally the father of the bride dances with her, after her first dance with her new husband.

Traditionally, the groom's parents host the rehearsal dinner. Both are seated just before the bride's mother at the ceremony and stand in the receiving line at the reception.

Speeches
Beginning after the meal, speeches are either loved or loathed by those that have to do them! Traditional order is as follows:-

The bride's father:
Thanking the guests for coming, welcoming his new son-in-law into the family and reminiscing about the bride with fond/funny stories. The speech ends with a toast to the bride and groom.

The groom:
Thanking the bride's father for his speech and the bride's mother for her daughter- and to both for
welcoming him into the family. Thanks and gifts are extended to the best man, bridesmaids, ushers and any other attendants or those who have helped with the organization of the wedding. The groom thanks the guests for their presence and kind gifts and ends by proposing a toast to the bridesmaids.

The bride:
Although not strict tradition, the bride may also stand and speak after her husband.Thanking her parents for their love and support,the groom's family for welcoming her into their family and all that have helped her on the run up to the wedding day.

The best man:
Replying on behalf of the bridesmaids and telling humorous stories about the groom - fondly of course! The best man will read out cards and telegrams from guests who were unable to attend, make a toast to the bride and groom and announce the ceremonial cutting of the cake.




Top Table
Traditionally, the top table is a long table, facing all of the guests. The order usually runs from the left,(facing the table), as follows :-

Chief bridesmaid               Grooms Father       Bride's mother
Groom                                Bride                     Bride's father
Groom's mother                 Best Man

However, some couples choose to keep their respective parents together.

Wedding Breakfast

 Wedding breakfast etiquette states that the male guests should keep their jackets on until the groom removes his own jacket. After the wedding breakfast, it's traditional for the bride and groom to toast their guests as a thank you to all the guests for their love and support in attending the celebration of your marriage. But you don't have to come up with a lengthy rehearsed speech - try reading out a poem together, it can be serious or humorous -  as long as it gets your message across.

 


Wedding Cake
A 'mock' cutting of the cake takes place with the photographer, purely for the official wedding photographs. The actual cutting of the cake takes place after the main course of the wedding breakfast. Reserve some wedding cake for guests who can't attend on the day that way they'll be touched that you were
thinking of them even in their absence.








Source: Myriad Brides Guide - Advice on Planning the Perfect Wedding (www.myriadbooks.com)

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Sarah O 

Estilo Moda Bridal

Unit 11 JM Farms

Broughton Grounds Lane

Off Newport Road

Milton Keynes

MK16 0HZ

01908925152  07534041173

Email:  info@estilomoda.co.uk

Website:  www.estilomoda.co.uk